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hey im about 15 years old and im always in the sun, and using over expressive facial expressions. ive noticed a few wrinkles under my eyes, on my forehead and a little bit of crows feet.nothing serious but i don’t want it to worsen. i also get 6-8 glasses a day. of water that is. is it ok to use a light night serum to prevent further wrinkleage? can it damage my skin or “speed up the process”? medical or substantial proof is appreciated. thanks- b. my lotion i use for my horrendous acne has spf 15 as well as my mineral makeup. but thanks!

1. My name is Roxanne, a name with Persian origins meaning “dawn”. 2. I was born on September 26, 1995. 3. I have deep connections with nature. [I'm Eclectic Wiccan mixed with some New Age beliefs] 4. I have a hard time fitting in in school. [Except for my family and very acquaintances, I only have one true friend.] 5. I have a bad temper, sometimes to the point of hitting someone, but I try to control myself since a few years. 6. I have deep beliefs. [Auras, chakras, natural channels, past lives and a lot of other things.] 7. Though I have no idea what my color of aura is, I know that my Third Eye chakra is my most active chakra. 8. I feel like I was born to do something big for humanity. 9. I have a good intuition, but I to be honest, I don’t think I have special abilities, though I sometimes have premonitions in my dreams. I can also access to past lives. 10. I’m a black sheep and I have been called weird, f’ucked up, mad, freak, witch, bizarre and name it. 11. I feel like I am more mature than most people of my age. [I'm fourteen and a lot of people who had just met me thought I was 16-21] 12. I feel misunderstood about my beliefs and I often feel left out in conversations, unless I’m talking about music, religion, spirituality, art, astronomy and some of these things. [Which happens rarely] 13. I don’t have attention deficits or anything, but I’m easily spaced out. 14. I feel isolated and anti-social except with my dad. [We are really mind-like, except that he's Christian, which complicates things when I want to talk with him about beliefs. =S] 15. I hate authority, though I’m not a trouble maker. I prefer peace and justice rather than fighting, violence and hatred. But my music teacher once told me to dance in front of the class. I told him we were in a music class, not at a dancing lesson. 16. I didn’t have a difficult childhood, though I have felt alone or left out many many times. I also often felt embarrassed by others and misunderstood. 17. Whenever I try explaining my beliefs to someone, they look at me like I’m mad or something and even if my explanation makes sense[to me], they say I’m either scary or f’ucked in the head. [my cousin especially says that] 18. I have a hard time not speaking my mind when racism occurs before my eyes. I can’t support seeing someone left out. I just learned about indigo and crystal children today. It got me curious since a lot of characteristics were pretty close to my life style, persona, etc. I just want to know what you think. Be honest too. If you don’t think I am, it’s totally okay, just say “No” say why and get over it! lol

1. My name is Roxanne, a name with Persian origins meaning “dawn”. 2. I was born on September 26, 1995. 3. I have deep connections with nature. [I'm Eclectic Wiccan mixed with some New Age beliefs] 4. I have a hard time fitting in in school. [Except for my family and very acquaintances, I only have one true friend.] 5. I have a bad temper, sometimes to the point of hitting someone, but I try to control myself since a few years. 6. I have deep beliefs. [Auras, chakras, natural channels, past lives and a lot of other things.] 7. Though I have no idea what my color of aura is, I know that my Third Eye chakra is my most active chakra. 8. I feel like I was born to do something big for humanity. 9. I have a good intuition, but I to be honest, I don’t think I have special abilities, though I sometimes have premonitions in my dreams. I can also access to past lives. 10. I’m a black sheep and I have been called weird, f’ucked up, mad, freak, witch, bizarre and name it. 11. I feel like I am more mature than most people of my age. [I'm fourteen and a lot of people who had just met me thought I was 16-21] 12. I feel misunderstood about my beliefs and I often feel left out in conversations, unless I’m talking about music, religion, spirituality, art, astronomy and some of these things. [Which happens rarely] 13. I don’t have attention deficits or anything, but I’m easily spaced out. 14. I feel isolated and anti-social except with my dad. [We are really mind-like, except that he's Christian, which complicates things when I want to talk with him about beliefs. =S] 15. I hate authority, though I’m not a trouble maker. I prefer peace and justice rather than fighting, violence and hatred. But my music teacher once told me to dance in front of the class. I told him we were in a music class, not at a dancing lesson. 16. I didn’t have a difficult childhood, though I have felt alone or left out many many times. I also often felt embarrassed by others and misunderstood. 17. Whenever I try explaining my beliefs to someone, they look at me like I’m mad or something and even if my explanation makes sense[to me], they say I’m either scary or f’ucked in the head. [my cousin especially says that] 18. I have a hard time not speaking my mind when racism occurs before my eyes. I can’t support seeing someone left out. I just learned about indigo and crystal children today. It got me curious since a lot of characteristics were pretty close to my life style, persona, etc. I just want to know what you think. Be honest too. If you don’t think I am, it’s totally okay, just say “No” say why and get over it! lol

I have been with my partner for 7 years, and haven’t really been single at all since I was sixteen. As much as I love him and love spending time with him, I see us going nowhere. Marriage is something I thought I wanted but I am not so sure anymore, and neither of us can make up our minds about kids. I am nowhere near ready to be a mum and he is already 46 (I am 30) so I feel a little rushed. Together we are both so lazy and unmotivated. People my age are either settling down or sometimes even partying up, I am stuck somewhere in the middle as I am doing neither. I see the years pass me by and nothing changes. We just do the same old things day by day, year by year. We have been together 7 years and built nothing. He absolutely adores me, and I do love being with him. He makes me laugh and is my best friend, he is the one person who is always there for me, but something is missing. I don’t see myself walking down the aisle with him, or imagine our kids names. We would be lucky to have sex once a month, I am not sure I am attracted to him that way any more. Ok I know I am not. We have fought about it before but I think he has just given up. I have always blamed lack of libido when I know my libido is fine. I would never ever be with anyone else physically though. I am very anti-cheating. Despite all this he still tells me how much he loves me every single day, buys me flowers for no reason and how happy he is that I am in his life. Every night I come home it is like coming home to a flatmate, or brother. The thought of his reaction to my ending it devastates me, he has been so undeservingly good to me and doesn’t deserve to have his heart broken, especially when he hasn’t really done anything wrong, but I can’t get it out of my head that every day I am with him more of my youth slips away. I don’t know what to do anymore. Please help.

i’m 15 and if i start using a little bit of anti-aging cream will i have better skin and less wrinkles when i’m older?

“But you have to pay for this wonderful anti-aging gel, Mrs. Pelosi, so that you can find out what is in the tube, away from the fog of the controversy. And by the way all sales are final.” “Oh,I see! Here, take this $50 and give me your wonderful gel.”

ts use more or less doubles the risk of a severe gastrointestinal event, which in most cases means bleeding seriously enough to require hospitalization. Lower doses such as those prescribed for cardiovascular patients and various formulation improvements (coatings and the like) only seem to improve these numbers by a small amount. Such incidents, along with others brought on by other oral anti-inflammatory drugs, are the most common severe drug side effects seen in medical practice. So my question is given that we know that our society WAY WAY over Nannies everything to keep the SUPER stupid safe, is really that big of a deal to give someone medicine when they are 6 months away from the recommended age. Has the human race really become this sissy?

Ok so I have dark circles under my eyes, I sleep well, eat well, not overweight, I don’t smoke, I drink occasionally but not often. I think its hereditary. So my mom told me to use her anti-age eye cream every night which is rich in antioxidants, but it seems to be darkening the skin under my eyes, how can this happen?

Hey I started taking anti depressant tablets 6 days ago for PND …called Fluoxetine. iv to stay on the tablets for 8 months – 1 year because iv had it after having my son who’s 19.5 months old now but it got worse after having my daughter 12 weeks ago. iv to go back to work in early September this year which makes me on the tablets for 25 weeks by then i should be feeling 100%. i work as a play-worker at an after school care and holiday club, working with children aged 5-11 years. should i tell my work iv got pnd and on anti depressants? when should i tell them? what would they do? thanks x+

I am a seventeen year old, that just feels trapped in a older age. Its funny, I just get annoyed with kids my age, and how fake of personailites that people must act. And everywhere I go I just do not seem to feel excited anymore. Everything is one big joke to me. I just find it annoying. I don’t want to make friends anymore, or go out with people. Its as if i turned ‘anti-social”.– which sucks, because isolation is just depressing. I feel like i know what’s going to happen with everything I choose and phases in life. But i just want to enjoy being a kid like everyone else. I feel like that background observor thats just meant to watch everyone actions and analyze their life’s. Freaky isn’t it? I mean I just need to find some sort of inspiration or just that feeling of “ah ha life is awesome ” The problem is ive seen more, but hnever exactly went through it,,, . I’ve never really have gone through serious fam problems, abuse broken hearts, ..

Hi, I am a 21-year-old-male. I am currently experiencing a major depressive episode in my life, but I think its more than just depression. I have severe memory loss (have trouble recalling what was said to me a couple of minutes ago), my short and long term memory are very bad. On top of this I have poor balance. I notice this when at soccer training and am running I can only think of myself running. It’s hard to put in to words. All my body movements are slow, i.e making cup of coffee, going for a shower etc. They all take me an incredible amount of time, not usual for someone else my own age. I also have little to no thoughts going on in my head on any given day. I’m not sure where to go from here. I am in a mental hospital at the moment but it feels like each day is a blank and I’m getting no where. I am on countless anti-depressents, epilem and an anti-psychotoic but nothing is working. I’m contemplating getting attention and requesting a memory specialist as I have to wait another 3-4 weeks before they will let me see one. please help

-Transcendentalists rely on nature insted of this Age of Reason value.. -What is the difference between a transcendental view of exploration and an anti-transcendental one? -If Ralph Waldo Emerson was confused, who might he ask for help? -Is Nathaniel Hawthorne a transcendentalist? Edgar Allen Poe? Why? -2 important factions of Romanticism are: (transcendentalism and anti-transc.?) -When Ralph Waldo Emerson says “Trust thyself,” he is asking people to obey what transcendental value?

all anti-age have spf, what else is out there that wont do this?

Using RX meds for rosacea but want to use a anti-aging treatment also.

Both cosmetic lines are popular and I want to makemore of an internet business out of it though. Which one should I sell though?? I’m really interested in wanting to come out w/ my own anti-aging skin care line, right now going to an institute for esthetics to get the background but also for more experience and to make some extra money, I was considering Avon but then was thinking of Mary Kay as well? Which is a better buy or sell I should say?

Both cosmetic lines are popular and I want to makemore of an internet business out of it though. Which one should I sell though?? I’m really interested inw anting to come out w/ my own anti-aging skin care line, right now going to an institute for esthetics to get the background but also for more experience and to make some extra money, I was considering Avon but then was thinking of Mary Kay as well? Which is a better buy or sell I should say? I’m from Long Island, NY.

okay so i am a 15 y.o. girl and seeing a psychiatrist for depression,, and in the last session she mentioned that if things didn’t start getting better, i may have to consider anti depressants… i’m really freaked out by that idea,, it would be really appreciated if i could got some information about them,, or talk to someone around my age who has had/is on them . . . i’ve heard heaps and i’m really scared ?? thanks umm,,, i not sure if psychiatrist is the right word,, she’s like a occupational therapist who is best known for work with adolescents but is a qualified psychiatrist

Her daughter is 19 and her son is 17.My friend is a single mum 42,she split up with her ex 10 years ago and devoted herself only to her kids giving them everything,love,food,shelter all on her own with no money from the ex.She is a devout Catholic and so were her kids until the age of 14, everything started turning into a nightmare. They come and go as they please,no chores.rudeness if spoken to. They treat the house like a hotel their things all over the floor. Mother is expected to cook and clean with her mouth shut and not ask where they are in the wee hours of the morning. I know they are spoiled rotten and have their dads attitude and I don’t know what advice to give my friend because I’ve never had a problem with my teenage son. My dear friend is on the verge of a nervous breakdown and has been seeing psychologists,psychiatrists. Has an ulcer ,arthritis, intense pain on the back of her neck to name a few things all cause by the daily stress and conflict,she has taken anti-depressants but all the drugs in the world can’t keep her problem under the rug. The problem are her brats and she can’t take the abuse anymore,she said it was like living with two of her ex husband and wants to leave them with their dad. He doesn’t want that, the kids don’t want him and tell her they will rather live in the street. She feels guilty of leaving them,they even have the nerve and tell her she hasn’t got the guts to do it! I want to take her in my house but I live on the other side of the world,she even is considering selling her things and coming over ,she is that bad.I would love her to be around for ever because i consider her my sister and she welcome to stay. Please can anyone give advice,I forgot to mention the psychologist had a chat with the kids too but the agreement to be civilized to their mother only lasts a few hours. Please help because she wants hide and die in a corner,also her daughter is jealous of her mum because all the men love her when they go out together,it’s not my friends fault she is a beautiful woman. She is a decent woman,she radiates beauty fully clothed without having to flaunt herself.

Hi, from the age of 12 ( im now 19) i had depression due to because i couldn’t cope in high school, when i had it i was very suicidle, didn’t want to speak to ANYONE, locked my self in my room 24/7, didn’t want to go out anywhere & cried all the time, i didn’t even want to speak to my own mum about it. My 24 year old sister while i had depression used to well bully me, she’d call me names like ugly,dumb, made me feel useless which did not help when i felt suicidle. She used to make me look a complete idiot infront of people, she even pulled my trousers down infront of her boyfriend & my friend (who was a boy also), i hated how i looked, i thought i was fat & startved myself until i was under 6 stone, i was seeing a doctor aswell who told me that if i lost any more weight i’d have’t to be in a wheelchair, in hospital & couldnt even get out of bed to go to the toilet. My sister give birth 6 months ago & has a 3 year old, she went to the doctors the other day & was given anti depressants, but yesterday she come here was her usual self, laughing & being her loud usual self, telling people whats what (thats her usual self by the way) she was happily telling us that she went into the doctors crying (which anyone can do) she says shes depressed because her 6 month old son doesnt sleep, i think its just stress not depression, i mean this saturday she’s doing a birthday party for 3 year old, which has got me thinking if she felt THAT bad why isit still on.. she was happily speaking about everything yesterday saying she crys herself to sleep (even her own boyfriend didn’t know though) she also said yesterday that her boyfriend says stuff about her b00bs or something, and she was like ‘u know im depressed how’s that gonna make me feel’ she did it way worse to me & that’s why im like i am now. What does it sound like to you? She treated me bad when i had depression that im still not ‘right’ now, i have no confidence at all, i hate myself, i have no friends because i lost contact with them from school, i don’t have a job, i see a occupational thearapist every 2 weeks, im not even close to my mum, she’s with my sister ALL the time, i get the feeling she likes it wen my bf comes over cuz im ‘out the way’ my sister treats her like sh*t, i dont & it seems she likes my sister more than me! I know it seems like im blaming her & im jealous over the attention she’s having but it really isnt, my boyfriend hates her guts because the way shes treated me & it has an effect on our relationship i cannot even change infront of him even though iv known him for about 5 years (i bet him from a different school after i left my high school) she also hates him, shes also had a problem with him, she’ll sit there & make faces behind his back, call him thick & other names & never talks to him. My family like him except her, iv got to the point where i try to avoid seeing her anymore which isnt fair on my nephews. What do you think i could do to make my life better? I really want a job or go to college but i don’t like speaking to people, im affraid to speak to people even my own age aswell, i think im too dumb to even have a job!

I just turned 18 and I was wondering if using Estee Lauder Day Wear Plus (Multi Protection Anti-Oxidant Creme SPF15) too early to start at my age or not? PRODUCT DETAILS This protective moisturizer actively shields skin to help prevent lines before they appear?so your skin looks smoother and healthier, longer. Helps protect skin from the multiple assaults of the environment: HAS ANYONE OUT THERE TRIED IT? PLEASE LET ME KNOW. THANK YOU!

I am 26 and would like to find a good anti aging skin care line. I would like to start using an anti aging line as preventive maintenance. I need something that is also fragrance free. I am willing to pay decent money for a line that works. Anyone have any luck with a skin care line?

See, the most perturbing issue with me is elitists slandering other persons taste music for ignorant reasons. Yes, you got it right, there ARE good reasons in my opinion but those reasons do not include age, current chart status, or any other close-minded reason you could think of to down play a musician, group of musicians, or a band. These reasons DO include talent, skill, creativity, originality, musical knowledge [ Theory Etc. ], and any other TRUE principal you could fairly critique music upon. Every person has their own preferences on which of these things are most important to them. These reasons are also further divided between each instrument element they prefer to focus on. Many examples include . Some people prefer to listen to music that is purely Guitar based and do not necessarily care much for the Vocals, Drums, Bass, etc. . Some may prefer to only look for good vocals and a plain supportive instrumental. . Some prefer all elements of instrumental music but do not care for the vocals. . Some prefer a moderate mix of all of these elements. . Some demand that the music have high quality in all principals. These are usually your picky listeners and usually claim they have a pure taste in music. In some ways they are right. All of the following is THEN divided by Genre. So you see, this is why tastes vary so much. Persons who listen to R&B, Pop, and Rap are mainly focusing on the vocal aspects of the music and not so much the instrumental. Although I do understand that some appreciate the beats. [ An avid NIN fan here! ]. People who listen to Country usually focus on two main things. Vocals and Guitar ( Or other similar stringed family of the guitar such as the Banjo and Mandolin ). People who listen to rock music have such varying preferences, there are no defined or mainstream preferences. That is for quite a few reasons. 1. Vocals range in many different varieties such as Screaming, Singing, Yelling, Ranting, Growling, Normal voicing, Unique voicing (Such as Ozzy Osbourne or James Hetfield), and much more. 2. Guitar styles range just as much as vocals. 3. Tempos range by sub rock genres. 4. Simply all of the Sub Genres of Rock. Some of these include Grunge, Hard Rock, Soft Rock, Power Ballads, Classic Rock, Hair Metal, Thrash Metal, Death Metal, Black Metal, Pop Rock, Shock Rock, and more. Each band has its own focuses. For instance, lets go in depth on Metallica for a minute. Bands like Metallica look to capture the attention of Guitarists, Age groups of 25-40, Vocalists and those who prefer good Unique vocals, and some other things. Metallica can also claim some pretty important credentials such as having one of the best Rock Bass guitarists of all time, Cliff Burton (R.I.P)(Yes that is an opinion but I speak for the millions who agree), one of the best Rock Drummers of all time, Lars Ulrich (Ditto), establishing the Genre that was 80’s Thrash Metal to the mainstream (They not only helped the Genre by making music but by promoting future Thrash Legends like Metal Church), Going multi-platinum, and releasing 9 albums and countless singles over the past 27 years, each having at least two chart hits, This makes Metallica one of the most important bands in Rock history despite what any anti-thrasher will argue. Metallica obviously has a through and through preference range. They’ve got mainstream sound, great vocals, talented and skilled guitar, drums, and bass. All in all I would say that Metallica is a pretty sound band, either you like them or you don’t, either way you cannot justify calling them “Bad Music” no matter what your taste and preferences are. This also applies to bands like Led Zeppelin, Iron Maiden, and Ozzy Osbourne. I am sure there are groups like this in other genres. I am only omitting them because my taste in mainly hard rock, grunge, and old-school metal. Now me? Personally? I measure my music on the following principals. . Guitar skill, talent, creativity, and originality. . Vocals skill, talent, creativity, and originality. . Drums skill and creativity. . Bass skill and creativity. So you can see that, if a band has amazing vocals and guitar but not very good drums and bass, there is still a good chance I’ll like them. However, if a band has amazing drums and bass but crappy guitar and vocals, there’s a really good chance I’ll end up pissing on it lol. These are my preferences, just because a band doesn’t fit into these preferences, doesn’t mean I could justify calling it “Bad Music”. However, if a band lacks all principals or nearly all principals of critique, they can be considered bad music. If you take any mainstream band that you dislike and measure them based on these preferences, you’ll realize that they have at least a couple things to offer people of other tastes. For example. I think Green Day is so-so. To me their guitar work is too unoriginal, uncreative, and lacks skill, and talent. Continued – The bass is decent, the drums are decent. In my opinion, without the appealing lead vocals of Billy Joe, Green Day would not have ever been successful. But even so, that is what they had to offer and people ate it up, they still do. So even though I do not really like Green Day much, I will not in any way call their work “Bad Music”. This also applies to bands like Jimi Hendrix and Nirvana who are listened to more for their uniqueness and originality rather than just their skill and talent as musicians. I listen to them both, but only moderately. I certainly believe that the other three “Big Four” of Grunge deserve bigger slices of credit than Nirvana. I also believe that Jimi Hendrix, although a GREAT musician, is only a decent guitarist, despite what the mainstream audience believes. You see how I still respect the music but I simply give my opinion. Anyone can react on your opinion and your tastes. But don’t dare let anyone call your taste in music “Bad Music”. For a quick question… I am asking YOU how YOU measure the worth of your music? I am not asking how TO. I am getting everyone elses opinion on how they choose value their music and why they value it that way.

Most young attractive women don’t identify as feminists, so why all the anti male laws that are still coming from the likes of Harriet Harman etc.

i am 20 and have wrinkles under my eyes. am i too young to use eye creams that are directed for reducing fine lines and wrinkles? i am currently using a cream that just sooths the eye area…. should i just stick with that? if i started using antiwrinkle and eye cream, and stopped woudl the wrinkles return?

–17 y/o female –Combination dry/oily –2 pimples [not a lot of acne] –Need an affordable firming cream for anti-aging [i would like to start early]

if so, what? a cream for aging and reducing eye wrinkles, prevents and firms eye. maybe even dark circles and bags too..i am afraid i can get it!

i want even the most fundamentel christians to answer this to also please include your age when answering this question its important if two guys live together in a gay relationship they hug, kiss, and cuddle but they are celibate they never have any kind of sex are they sinning? i would think the answer would be no. i mean jesus and his disiple cuddled the one who layed his head on jesus’ chest and washed his feet and then david and johnathan hugged and kissed maybe not frenching since it hadnt came along yet but you know when they said goodbye the final time passion had to of played a big role. so whats your opinion sin or not Additional Details thanks people for all the answers i guess there is no way for a gay person to be happy without going to hell according christians im a gay rev who fell in love with a friend who is also extremely religious and a fundamentalist christian and even though i know he would never consider such a relationship with me i was trying to see what the most anti gay people would say and it is what i figured that even though we woulndnt be having sex we would still be sinning i dont understand how though where does the bible say its a sin to be gay even if your a lteralist conservative fundamentalist like i used to be. only gay sex would be considered a sin now i know better even the sex aint a sin if its done in a marriage. i feel like giving up on religion sometimes cause im never good enough so it seems my seat is reserved for me in hell. but i will continue to have faith and hope God will save me. 5 minutes ago

Think of fast food as drugs! Look around, everybody is fat! Well mostly everyone. It kills them! It kills a lot of people! But in our country it is ok? I know so many people that are leggitly addicted to fast food and sweets! It’s like alcoholism, it is BAD IN OUR COUNTRY! I guarantee YOU there are more overweight health problems, and more money is put into that than there is in Tobacco. But no one is fighting against that! I don’t know why! It just bugs me. I am physically fit and maybe that is why I am so anti fat people. One of my biggest pet peve’s is when a person gets fat they can get a handicapped sticker that parks them right next to the door. I say if you start to get too overweight like that, they should get a sticker that parks their ass in the back, and have them do 3 laps before they can come in! LOL Here’s what I propose. Make it illegal to be fat! Now for people that have leggit problems that cause them to be fat or limits their physical activity they can get excluded from the rule, and when you reach a certain age you can be excluded as well. Now don’t give me that bullshit genetics excuse. I am supposed to be “genetically” an alcoholic and fat! and I am neither! It can be beaten. Imagine a world where we don’t consume like a million pounds of food. Or we start riding more bikes or walking more. So many causes and problems could be helped and possibly solved.. and don’t even get me started on child obesity. PS. Don’t even call me a dick. All I am asking is for you to look good, feel good, be healthy, and excersise(spell check).. It that so bad?

My boyfriend and I dated for 14 months. Im not going to tell you my age, though. So we were quite happy, and hes a little, well, mentally retarded. Like, hes super bipolar, had a slight lisp… kind of anti social. But all in all, he did love me a lot, which was why I was with him. It was easy to be myself and act like the stupid clown that I usually am. We were on and off because he would sometimes be stalkerish and mean to me. I broke up with him when he started being really mean to me. I just couldn’t take it anymore. It’s been a month now… At first, he wanted me back and called me and cried. He used to be really nasty to me sometimes and he used to be really nice to me sometimes. I didn’t know what to do, so following my friends advice, I ignored him and acted like I didn’t care. I did love him, I loved his good side. He then started dating another girl. She’s really pretty, but I heard that she was a slut. A girl told me that I was way better than her. I was diagnosed with cancer, and he never did anything for me. But when this other girl got the flu, he bought her roses. His friend told me that he wanted to do things for her that he wasnt able to do for me. I felt like shit, and my self esteem got down really low. I sent him a message asking him why after all that I did for him, he ended up breaking my heart. Why he was so nice to her but he was such a jerk to me. He said that he still loved me. Being the insecure bitch that I am, I asked him to choose between me and her. He chose her. But he still loves me, and I know it. He somehow looks happy without me. I spent more than a year loving him and being loved by him. Being single hurts a lot, because he’s so happy and Im not. I know Im a mess and you probably dont like me, but hey, isnt everyone insecure at some point? My question is, how do I get over this? Its really heartbreaking. I feel like dying sometimes, because I miss the warmth of him and his hazel eyes. I miss him a lot, but I know it wont work out. He wants to be a “player” like his cousin… Hes becoming a tool. I somehow still love him. And its killing my insides. What do I do? How do I get over everything, and start new? How do I lead the single life? How do I be more social than I was when I was taken and he was my everything? Please consider that I go to school. And also, dont judge by my age. Love can happen at any age. The innocence of it is what is affected by age. I just need to know how to be a normal teenager without having him to take care of me. Thanks.

what is a simple clear explanation of a libertarian? i think i might be a conservative libertarian…i believe the government should stay outta peoples lives, lower taxes, get rid of things like the politically correct $hit, im pro abortion before 6 months, anti abortion after that. i do not believe in gay marriage (sorry to some people if i offended you), i believe to own our own guns, and i think weed should be legal am i wrong? i always thought i was a conservative, im very religious and think christianty should be taught aswell as muslim and evolution in school (i dont believe in evolution. but lets not get into all that cuz i dont want this question to be based on this)…i think government is wayyyyy into ppl’s lives such as we’ll say the seatbelt law (just a lil example) i think thats YOUR choice (liberals made that law i disagree wit it)…i’m starting to think besides the extremely bad drugs like crack lol that it isnt so bad…alcohol age should be lowered to 18, weed use isnt as bad as i used to think back in the days (except i dont think u should be allowed to drive when high)…i am a girl so i think if i got prego i should have a choice, bc if not that would be scary as hell, but it would be awful to get rid of a baby if it was almost a newborn. and i believe marriage is between a man and a woman.

Im 15 & iwant to know:if i start applying anti aging lotions and junk like that to my face nowwould my skin be healthy & beautiful & if not,what can i use to have healthy looking skin.?

Why use age of consent and anti child porn laws to abuse those they were meant to protect? The original age of consent laws were ONLY meant to stop to things ARRANGED MARRIAGES FOR the PARENTS BENEFIT As girls were married off to richer families or part of political (ie princess) or business deals Whig is what all the no sex before marriage virginity nonsense was about ie people did not want their new paid for product to have been used as cared nothing for the girl. And to put a lid on child prostitution. THESE LAWS WERE NEVER MEANT TO PROSECUTED TEENS DATING TEENS OR HAPPY COUPLES BETWEEN A LATE TEEN AND SOMEONE IN EARLY 20S. As these are happy couples no force or abuse. Likewise the Anti child porn laws ie Megan’s law were written before the internet and phone s advanced to make sexting practical. These laws were intended to prevent FORCED ABUSE WHERE THE YOUNGER ONE HAD NO SAY AND COULD NOT STP THINGS HAPPENING TO THEM THEY WERE NOT READY FOR. Again even the Megan Mum said they were never intended to be used to arrestteenagerss for flirty sexy photo sending asthat’ss part of falling in love. If those involved are happy for it to occur there is no crime as no abuse. So when they is nobody stopping thecorruptionn of the Original Spirit of these rules and laws to abuse and ruin lives of those they were meant to protect from abuse and harm? As surely this makes the police, prosecution, the judges paedophiles and abusers as they are the only ones forcing unwanted Sexual activity and violence forcing teens into jail cells wirapistssts and thugs. Nobody else the boy or girlfriends are not . The sexter and those say aged 19 and 15 are not doing anything their partner does not want so where is the problem and these laws meant to protect to hurt kids instead. Doing stuff earlier then you shushould a minor problem having people arrested, jailed, raped and battered and destroying education, career and social development is what harms the most. Surely only muggers, rapists, abusers, thugs should be in prision not those who siprisonll in love. And why dont the victims the young couple’s friends not storm police stations or principles offices for attacking a couple to wipe out all who are there and free their friends from the evil kiddie abuser authourities making an an example such abusers to prevent more abuse happening? . ********************* can the next poster be more inteligent then the first 3 and read it properly that way you understand it its saying why are laws meant to protect teens from harm used to harm them when they have not hurt anyone. Ie the anti child porn laws were meant to stup fully mature adults from raping kids in videos or setting them up for it . They were not meant to prosecut teengers for sending sexy photos so the receiver would want to make out. Likewise the age of concent laws where meant to stop arranged marriages and child prostituion so why use them to arrest teen couples for statutory rape? its defeating the purpose ******************* Quote My best guess is that teens get in trouble for that encase a child pornist gets a hold of the picture. No they usually don’t Its a case of just as those in the photo are under whatever age of concent or being in nude photos its considered child po**whihc implies those taking the photo had malcious intent. But where is the intent when the one taking the photo was the person in the photo so they cant vcitimise themself and certainly not abusing themselves any more then somne looking in the mirror undressed and nobody is being abused when they want their partner to see them that way and want their partner to act by getting touchy and kissy and having sexaul thoughts about them as happy to be with them and doing making love activities or more lilely just making out as not ready. As said there is no logic as no victim in either case ********************** So Cool I am pointing out there is a difference between somone videoing naked kids and people doing sexsul things to them. And those couples taking naked of underwear shots of themselves to send to their loved ones as a treat and keep them interested into wanting to make out as a form of flirting ************ Hailey quote well, i for one, think you are using too many big words. quit polluting our section with your dumbass questions. Well clearly the question is not dumb if using big complex words those of your intellect are not smart enugh to understand. But those posting nonsense like cant be bothered to read are. One poster got it so why not the rest of you? You just need to read it properly and think

Im 16 years old and i want to reduce my chance of getting fine lines and wrinkles. Im just wondering if now is the right time to start preventing.

1. When is your birthday? 6. What is your religion? If you don’t have one, do you believe in God? 3. Are you pro-choice or anti-abortion? 9. Your opinion on the death penalty? 7. Should gay marriage be permitted? 2. Do you think prostitution should be legalized? 5. Do you think marijuana should be legalized? 4. Should the drinking age be lowered to 18? *please tell me month and day of birth.* 8. Do you have any last words?

THIS WAS DONE BY GLOBAL FIREPOWER .COM AND INDIAN ARMY WAS AT 4TH POSITION AND AUSTRALIAN ARMY WAS IN 26TH……..USA 1ST CHINA 2ND RUSSIA 3RD IN TREMS OF FIGHTING POWER……..AUSTRALIA IS 26TH WITH THE MOST SHORT TERM DEVASTATING ARMY. INDIAN ARMY PERSONNEL Total Population: 1,147,995,904 [2008] Population Available: 584,141,225 [2008] Fit for Military Service: 467,795,073 [2008] Reaching Military Age Annually: 22,229,373 [2008] Active Military Personnel: 1,325,000 [2008] Active Military Reserve: 1,155,000 [2008] Active Paramilitary Units: 1,293,300 [2008] ARMY Total Land-Based Weapons: 10,340 Tanks: 3,898 [2004] Armored Personnel Carriers: 317 [2004] Towed Artillery: 4,175 [2004] Self-Propelled Guns: 200 [2004] Multiple Rocket Launch Systems: 150 [2004] Anti-Aircraft Weapons: 2,424 [2004] NAVY Total Navy Ships: 143 Merchant Marine Strength: 501 [2006] Major Ports and Harbors: 9 Aircraft Carriers: 1 [2004] Destroyers: 8 [2004] Submarines: 18 [2004] Frigates: 16 [2004] Patrol & Coastal Craft: 43 [2008] Mine Warfare Craft: 12 [2008] Amphibious Craft: 7 [2004] AIR FORCE Total Aircraft: 1,007 [2004] Helicopters: 240 [2004] Serviceable Airports: 346 [2007] FINANCES (USD) Defense Budget: $32,350,000,000 [2006] Foreign Exch. & Gold: $275,000,000,000 [2007] Purchasing Power: $2,966,000,000,000 [2007] OIL Oil Production: 810,000 bbl/day [2007] Oil Consumption: 2,438,000 bbl/day [2005] Proven Oil Reserves: 5,700,000,000 bbl [2007] LOGISTICAL Labor Force: 516,400,000 [2007] Roadways: 3,316,452 km Railways: 63,221 km GEOGRAPHIC Waterways: 14,500 km Coastline: 7,000 km Square Land Area: 3,287,590 km AUSTRALIAN ARMY PERSONNEL Total Population: 21,007,310 [2008] Population Available: 9,870,031 [2008] Fit for Military Service: 8,159,764 [2008] Reaching Military Age Annually: 282,445 [2008] Active Military Personnel: 54,000 [2008] Active Military Reserve: 20,300 [2008] Active Paramilitary Units: 0 [2008] ARMY Total Land-Based Weapons: 705 Tanks: 71 [2005] Armored Personnel Carriers: 364 [2005] Towed Artillery: 270 [2005] Mortars: 296 [2005] NAVY Total Navy Ships: 56 Merchant Marine Strength: 52 [2008] Major Ports and Harbors: 11 Aircraft Carriers: 0 [2008] Destroyers: 0 [2008] Submarines: 6 [2005] Frigates: 10 [2005] Patrol & Coastal Craft: 15 [2005] Mine Warfare Craft: 6 [2005] Amphibious Craft: 3 [2005] AIR FORCE Total Aircraft: 466 [2005] Helicopters: 309 [2005] Serviceable Airports: 461 [2007] FINANCES (USD) Defense Budget: $22,000,000,000 [2009] Foreign Exch. & Gold: $26,910,000,000 [2007] Purchasing Power: $773,000,000,000 [2007] OIL Oil Production: 540,000 bbl/day [2007] Oil Consumption: 903,200 bbl/day [2005] Proven Oil Reserves: 1,437,000,000 bbl [2006] LOGISTICAL Labor Force: 10,950,000 [2007] Roadways: 812,972 km Railways: 38,550 km GEOGRAPHIC Waterways: 2,000 km Coastline: 25,760 km Square Land Area: 7,686,850 km

This section is filled with some of the most racist ignroant people i have seen.. i havent seen racist people like this in a LONGGG time (reading the answers and questions in this section u would think half these ppl are still living in the 50’s).. its sad .. i guess due to the recession all the older folks are just kicking it back in the home rotting away the days online. No way could this be the new generation of kids.. apparently 75 (if not even more) percent of the kids (around the ages of 19-28) voted for obama. Either that or this is the result of home schooling children, they become anti social and pick up some of the most craziest things from the internet.. probably from stormfront and youtube. How do all the black people feel about this? i dont get why most of u guys bother replying or even being on this section? And why do the trolls bother with the questions it alwasy gets deleted and ur accounts always get suspended. I just dont get it. A bunch of losers with no life on here thats for sure. Anyways im outtie.

American society has little objection to unrestrained sexual promiscuity amongst consenting adults. It is only when they add the binding contractual vows of marriage that one risks arrest and imprisonment. Historically the hostility towards polygamy in the U.S. has roots in the outrage of religious viewpoints more than anything else. (The fact that some groups which have practiced polygamy have also abused under-aged girls and welfare programs doesn’t prove that polygamy REQUIRES such abuses. Has every culture where polygamy has been practiced observed these same abuses? I doubt it but I solicit your answers to that question.) So what do you think: Will changing attitudes eventually repeal anti-polygamy laws in the U.S.? And since polygamy IS a doctrine of some religious traditions, what is the COMPELLING INTEREST principle of society which must trump religious freedom in the case of polygamy? (That is, freedom of religious expression is normally a primary civil rights UNLESS some other prevailing compelling interest of society must be elevated about it — but what would that more vital principle be? Is there any doubt that HISTORICALLY, the outrage against polygamy in the U.S. was based upon the religious beliefs of the majority?) [No, I'm not a polygamist nor am I some kind of Mormon apologist. I'm simply asking a question about a religious belief issue in the U.S. So, I hope everyone can stay calm and chill out.]

We are in a society which everyone wants to look young and healthy. One of the most important aspects is anti aging. Woman in our society feel the need to stay clean, refreshed, beautiful and young. There is lot of competitive product out today who are trying to get the best formula and finding a better solution for a more youthful look. They are producing more natural anti-aging products that would include the best ingredients and would show the best results within a few months. Though many woman in are society want to use this product that would make them all this things. The best way to get any woman to buy any of this anti age products is by giving facts that can guaranteed us good result.

i know what your going to say is that im young i dont need it, but i was thinking if i use it now before the wrinkles show up if might help them stay away longer. Will these creams affect me in any way? thanks! =]

i took anti depresants years ago and my sex drive has never been the same since. it was very high before, and i am still very highly sexed – i think about it all the time – but my libido and capacity for erection are low. if i watch porn i dont get hard with the visual stimulation alone, only if i play with myself, and even then its usualy not a 100 percent level of arousal and erection. when im with a woman i can only get an erection if she does oral on me. i know its not physical cause i get morning erections, and at various times over the years my sex drive has returned briefly to what it used to be. im at the stage i dont know whats normal for a man of my age, so is this normal? is this what its like for the average man of 34? i get the impression that its not, and that the average man of my age is pretty much able to get an erection no problem if the opportunity for sex arises, and should be able to get an erection with visual stimulation no problem. is this the case?

I’ve been on them for 3 days, a very low dosage of 15mls. I can’t take the side effects. I’ve been getting so sick with anxiety since I started taking them. I haven’t suffered with my anxiety for ages. I’ve been having vision problems, heart palpitations, nausea, restlessness and a headache. I feel worse than I did before I was on them. I can’t see my doctor to talk about it until Wednesday, but I already have an appointment booked for friday.. Do you think seeing it’s only been three days I could just stop taking them until I can discuss my options with him? I’m not sure I even want to be on anti depressants. I think with counselling I could get by. I’m not that low at the moment. I don’t want to feel this sick!

Directly quoted from an Olay Rebate Form: ——————————————————————– Buy: Olay Regenerist Micro-Sculpting Cream OR Regenerist DNA Superstructure UV Cream AND Regenerist Anti-Aging Eye Roller by February 11, 2010. ——————————————————————– I read this sentence thinking I could buy Micro-Sculpting Cream (1 product) OR the DNA and the Eye Roller together (2 products) to get the rebate. Customer Service told me the sentence means you must buy Micro-Sculpting Cream and the Eye Roller OR DNA and the Eye Roller to get the rebate. So because I bought just the Micro-Sculpting I won’t be receiving my $20. Is this bit of legalese written correctly to mean what they say it means?

I use bare hairspray in my hair (shockwaves) everyday and straighten it most days. This is because I don’t like it wavy (the straightening) and the wind messes it up (so i use hairspray). The only product I use (apart form hairspray) is head n shoulders damage rescue shampoo and conditioner. Im scared I will have hair loss or something when older. My hair is damaged, when i come out of the shower when it is washed or something (just clean – no products in such as hairspray) it is frizzy. not sticking up frizzy, just really rough and like frizzy down on my forehead. I need an alternative to all this hairspray, i used to use it excessively but now I try and keep it to a minimum. My hair just doesn’t stay how i style it, i need something to hold it in place. How can i fix this? I don’t want to use hairspray, I want my hair to stay how i style it (when brushed or something) without having to make it sticky and hard. how come all my friends hair doesn’t lose shape or whatever without the use of hairspray? how can i fix the frizz? do i need something for straightening, such as anti frizz or something? please help me sort out my hair. any advice will be appreciated, except abuse. oh yeah, im a 16 year old boy. However gay this may sound.. no. i am straight and know a lot of boys my age who straighten their hair. so if you have something abusive to say keep it to yourself yeahh . and my hair is medium length for a boy. slightly longer side fringe and fairly short everywhere else. sort of like the avatar thing for my profile. cheeeeers

would you consider an arranged marriage? My uncle just told us last night he?s getting one and I thought it was the funniest thing ever (he?s one of the most anti-social people I know).

Report after report show us that illegals are important to this economy and our workforce and that amnesty would benefit Americans to, but it’s like anti-immigration people don’t want to hear this. Why do you think? +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ The market is telling us something that many of us don’t want to hear. It whispers it in the numbers that filter, largely overlooked, through the immigration debate. Consider the most basic: In Texas, we have an estimated 1.1 million undocumented workers, compared with 450,000 people listed as unemployed. Even if every unemployed Texan had a job, we still wouldn’t have enough people to meet the labor demand, even if we sent all the illegal immigrants home. Nationally, we face a narrower gap but the same situation ? about 8.1 million illegal immigrants and about 7.5 million unemployed workers. So we can build fences, step up patrols, get tough on deportations and decry the social and economic costs of illegal immigration, but we can’t escape the market’s message: We need them. “They’re filling a gap in the work force,” Waco economist Ray Perryman said. Filling in for boomers As the baby boomers retire, there simply aren’t enough eligible workers to do unskilled jobs. Staggering consequences Shutting down illegal immigration and deporting the undocumented workers who are here would have immediate and staggering consequences for our already battered economy. Getting smarter Nor is the labor gap going to get smaller. As the population ages, demand for unskilled workers will continue to rise. As a work force, though, we’re not just getting older, we’re getting smarter. Not keeping pace There are, of course, legal avenues for immigration, but the market is telling us those policies aren’t working. The legal immigration process simply can’t keep pace with the mounting labor demand. Source: http://www.chron.com/disp/story.mpl/business/steffy/5793519.html

Fine Print: Provided your answers are actually appropriate to the topic of course What do you think of the anti-bias curriculum in education? I’d like to know your thoughts For those that don’t know, the basic idea of the “anti-bias curriculum” is this: the goal is to decrease prejudice as a whole, and educate children that being different is okay. Think of it as the school’s approach to challenge racism, sexism, socialism, and so on. What are your 2 cents regarding the idea? There’s no right or wrong answer. This questionnaire is something I’d like to include in my essay to cite as a resource, so get everyone to contribute! So everyone DO answer. Get all of your friends to participate as well – it’s all in the name of research, so for those who answer THANK YOU You don’t need to cite your age, gender, or any of those things because my professor and I don’t think it’s imperative to the research. My goal is to just collect the voice of the people Thanks you two! Keep it coming and spread this around I’d love to get as much input as I can!